Wednesday, October 8, 2014

What is Love?


Baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more
Baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more.

What is love?!

Okay! Now that the soundtrack to this blog post is stuck in your head- let's continue!
 
I'm one of those hopeless romantics that truly believes love is what makes the world go round ((yeah, yeah... I get the gist, physicist.. angular momentum is a tiiiiny part of that too))
 
It's not something you can define, but something you feel. But as you know, I'm big on words...
 
Love fascinates me, intrigues me. It's not something you can define, but something you feel. But as you know, I'm big on words, so I thought- "What is love?" ((queue the soundtrack in your head again, you're welcome! ;))  Or rather, "How would you define love in words?" 
 
I asked a number of people to define love in 1-2 sentences, so without further adieu:  
 
 "Love is bacon."
Age 45
 
 "Love is being nice and kissing each other."
Age 8 

"Love is Blind, love is different in every relationship, love is what you make of it, when you are away from the person you're in a relationship with and your heart tingles that's love..
Love is when I'm too sick to wipe my own nose or ass!"
Age 42 
 
"Love is...what makes the world go round. It makes the ride worth it."
Age 26

"Selfless, vulnerable Love in the raw is terribly scandalous. It does not make logical sense... much like God Himself. They cannot be separated."
Age 22 

"If you love someone you will be or do anything for them....  What comes to mind is The Notebook, "If you're a bird, I'm a bird."
Age 32 

"Love is destructive beauty. It's eternal and never dies and could make or break you."
Age 17

"Love is inconsistent. It endures only through unconditional commitment."
Age 22

"The best and only definition of love is 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres."
Age 23

"Love is unbreakable and spans all space and time. It is unbiased and the most powerful thing in existence. Love is infinite."
Age 22 

"This is from a website I read once, "Love is like pushing a button and getting a cookie every time, but eventually you only get a cookie one in every 100 pushes, the other 99 times you get pooped on by a bird, but you still push the button waiting for that one time you get a cookie."
Age 23

"Love is light, love is warmth and kindness, love is honesty and truth.  Love is capable, love is worth, love is never immediate.  Love will always be eternal."
Age 34 

"Love is the chemical reaction in our brains that triggers an emotional response with a physical action to show we care about someone or something."
Age 23 

"Love is an act of expression. 
It means nothing if you don't show it."
Age 33

"To me love is caring. It's being willing to go to the ends of the earth for someone else's well being.  Love is meeting in the middle,  and not always getting your way. It's respect. It's trust. It's friendship and family. It's listening with an open mind and heart,  and being a shoulder to cry on at 2am when needed. Without love the world would shatter in isolation."
Age 20 

"Love is being able to trust and depend on another person without reservation. I also think love is a warmth- a "spark" in my heart when I see the other person coming to be with me. Love means listening carefully to the other person."
Age 89 

 
How would YOU define love? Shoot me a message or leave a comment below! I always LOVE hearing from you! 
 
...man, I love LOVE.
How do YOU define love?
 
 
 

2 comments:

  1. "Love its a dirty word to me. A painful experience that i don't want to repeat.
    Love it tore my soul apart. and i lost myself to a broken heart...."

    I wrote this song over five years ago and must say that love for me is still painful but also enchanting. I am the type of person that will love with all that i am, and as a result I am more valuable to heart ache. Yet I still believe in love. it exists within me, it is apart of what makes me, me. I have a Favorite quote that put love definition perfectly for myself.
    "You are what you love, not what loves you" (adaptation) xxx

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  2. when I saw the title, I just had to read this...cause I asked myself the same thing : http://everydaylovetips.blogspot.com/2014/04/what-is-love.html
    this is what love should be: "Love is being nice and kissing each other."

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